It seems that both options offer a certain level of comfort. If everything happens for a reason, we can find solace in the notion that there's purpose behind even the most challenging experiences.

On the other hand, if we find a reason in everything, it means we have the power to create meaning in our lives, even when faced with chaos.

So, perhaps the cleverest response is to embrace both ideas simultaneously and navigate life with a healthy blend of fate and personal agency.🙏